WillSearchUpdate 2

April 28, 2014

10:00

I spoke to Heidy Landau because I thought that she was one of the people that would be responsible for my welfare after my mother passed away. I asked her if she was at the meeting when this was decided.  The lady said she was not at any such meeting.  She also said she was not responsible for my welfare when my mother passed away.  She said it must be my brother.  She said she is sure he will handle properly and would not say anything else.

The problem comes with an episode in my past when I was given sixteen million dollars by the Royal family to do what I wanted to.  When I went to take it to the bank the bank manager refused to accept to handle the money because it was against my father’s wishes.  So no one would take the money but my father and he took it every single bit.  That is when I became homeless and the family went on international travels and started furnished their extremely expensive house with high quality and rare antiques.  So disturbing was their lack of concern of my misery and their absolute unabashed confiscation of the money I am not sure that their windfall is the Royal money I was awarded.  This is a situation I would not want repeated with my brother.  Not only was that if the money taken by this family I wonder if they took ownership of it.  If they did not legally than the money and all they bought with it should be mine.   However the fact is harsh reality sets in and again the reason I do want this man who is my brother and his extended community to handle this estate carte blanche is because I do not want this to happen again.

Dr. Norman Hoffman said he was not there at all when I inquired last week at our appointment on Thursday, April 23, 2014.

10:00

Bernie Band said he absolutely nothing to do with any meeting that happened to decide who would take responsibility of me once my mother passed away.  He was not there.

10:00

I called Anna Nissenbaum. She was not available.

 

I am calling Leslie Fabian to ask if father and mothers estate was declared an annuity.  If it was, then was the person administering it the Insurance agency?

He was not available.

17:00

I finally reached Leslie.

He had been called both by Heidy and Bernie about the phone calls that I made.  I expected they would call him as soon as they could and sure enough they did. He said that there had been no meeting and I had been hallucinating.

I explained that I felt that there was a conflict of interest about my brother being the only person handling the estate after my mother died.  He said that he would mostly be hands off in regards to most things unless I have a stupid idea of investing my part of the estate.  He went from saying there is no one handling the estate to that there is someone handling the estate, several times. 

He said all the estate when father died went to mother so it is none of my business: it is hers.

When mother dies he will not do much but just watch if I want to invest the half of the money I receive unwisely.

I asked several times who would be deciding how much I would live off when mother died.  He said it would be decided by accountants.  They would invest the money and if they made a lot I would live off more and if they lost I would live off less. He would however be the liaison and he refused to give me the name of the people who would be managing his and my finances

This is to me a conflict of interest and I do not have any faith in the justness of the amount of money that I will be receiving being justly given to me.  Often in the past there have been many family s that obligations that have to do with his immediate family not mine legally and practically so.  This is a source of great concern to me.

I have no amiable relationship whatsoever with the other members of my community that enables me to call them even on a casual basis.  That would include the Vera Singer, Fred Blauer and Beatrice Freders (who were all there at the meeting). 

I have also had people pretending to be someone else using me before.  I am often confused at the time.   I do not remember the details of this meeting clearly.

April 23, 2014

Public Curator Update

 

My Classification

 Dr. Hoffman said that we should classify me as I am schizophrenic. Schizophrenic and psychotic are medical terms.

He said according to Ontario law you have to be certified to declare someone as mentally incompetent.  He does not know if he has the authority in Quebec.

3. I asked the family (my brother) if I was certified mentally incompetent. I did this because I remembered there was a meeting to establish who would take care of me after my mother died because I was considered severely handicapped.  I recall my father saying that when he passed away and that it was under the responsibility of two people just about his age when he died.  And after my mother dies I will be under someone else’s responsibility.  One of the people is my brother.  I do not remember clearly who is being given responsibility for me and I do not know who has declared me mentally incompetent and for what reason.

I remember refusing Fred Blauer as being able to be one of the executors of the estate because he keeps on changing the family members and keeping the same name for them.  Anyways they are so unfamiliar I do not recognize them at all.

The Freders did not get along with the Fabians for years according to myself.  I did not consider them benevolent.

As for the Singers, there is the question of a dishonorable romance between myself and one of the family members.   There is also a question of character belittling when referring to myself.  There is also the doubt as to what happens to the many broken honors that these people might incur.  There is a question of peopling the factories with them. 

All this was discussed when choosing a council for taking care of me when I was declared mentally incompetent.

Afterthought about the meeting (what really happened)

As I was writing about the description of the meeting it came to me what happened. I found myself at this late stage of my life very despairing of ever being understood.  I met several people who said that all people can be understood.  It just takes interested people who have the time to do it.  Also despite my being in late middle age I felt devastated still by the rejection of my family.  Now this is also despite my knowing with my intellect that the family unit of mother, father, brother and intended husband had stopped being real not once but several times. So Finally I met some people who were interested enough to take the time to understand me.

Why it is to clear but it could be a gift from the Crown of Brussels.  I found several crowns of some children monarchs who had been murdered and I brought it back to Brussels because this is the monarchy that concerns itself with Royal matters.  It was there I met a benevolent group of people who offered me a very attractive place to stay. I was offered the opportunity to replace my hostile and dysfunctional family unit with a surrogate one made of member much more supportive that any of the original ones had been.  Many wounds were healed but I decided wonderful as the place was where I found refuge, I could not stay. I felt compelled to go back to the place in which I was so unhappy.

One of the supporters was a police officer and he said that I had been tortured severely and that the reason I was so badly treated was because I did not want to do what they wanted me to do.  He said the only way to break these ties was to give it time.  I said I did not want to be around people who I liked when I was suffering.  I would rather be among people who I did not like.  And so I went home to certain abuse.

However, before I left there was a meeting of these benevolent others who assumed the names and roles of those who were supportive in my community.  It was three that my welfare was given over to benevolent protectors who not only had my interest in mind but were concerned with my peace of mind as well.  It was there a living plan was drafted so that I would be provided for according to my wishes.

These people discussed my future by trying to piece together my life by using their experience as actors to get an idea of my life by role playing the people who were associated with it for a long time.

The reason this comes to mind is because when I contacted the actual people to talk about this so called meeting not one person professed to have been at the meeting.  Therefore I can only assume that if my future was discussed at all by the people who would discuss it there would be no change about their ideas about what constitutes my well being and they would like before, be not at all concerned about my liking or even tolerating it.

In other words, the whole act of curatorship had been acted out with people assuming the roles of people in the community I left but in this case by actively taking into account something that never seemed to matter in the past.  Making the plan pleasant and desirable to myself since these people are still unfound.  If this is indeed the case then this surrogate team have had a couple of years to reflect on my fate and my situation.

I have to state for the record, that I am not mentally incompetent when it comes to making large sums of money.  It seems I become mentally incompliant when there is a question of me using the fruit of my labor.  There is no discussion of mental incompetence when talking about the people who are using this sum.

About a week before my father died he made a large amount of money.  The sum was large enough to get the services of the doctor who was taking care of him at the Catherine Booth, to create a whole new graveyard in which to bury his remains and his friends according to his specification, and to give me, when my mother dies, a sum of forty thousand dollars a year for life (the last remains to be verified with time).   This money is completely new and had nothing to do with the estate before.

The question comes to me what happened to the money that was there before?  According to my brother there is absolutely nothing left but I recall my father leaving the family heirlooms, the furniture and the jewellery to me.  The country house was to go to my brother.  The city house was to be sold so that my mother’s needs were kept care of.

 

Public Curators Office

1. Upon speaking to the information centre on the phone the gentlemen said that if I am simply diagnosed as mentally incompetent by a certified expert then I am not eligible for the protection of the Public Curator.   I must be declared, not diagnosed as mentally incompetent, by a recognized expert before they can even begin to look at my case.

2. I went to visit the office of the Public curator.  It is on Rene Levesque Boulevard a street down from the Bay department store on Ste. Catherine.

My readings from the Public Curator

He does two things:

Monetary issues

He deals with monetary issues if a person is considered incompetent to deal with themselves. It can be either the office or the person to choose the notary or a lawyer to take care of the monetary aspects of this. 

Medical issues

He deals with medical issues:

What kind of treatment, living conditions, and housing a person is entitled to in case of being declared incapable of handling these issues?

The idea of incompetency does not have to be complete.  One can be incompetent with monetary affairs but able to handle a household, and dressing, and eating.  One can be incompetent when trying to find a place to live in or get money from their work but one can be competent with budgeting day to day.  Or buying enough to satisfy their daily needs.

Also being declared incompetent does not have to be permanent.  You can change this ruling the same way it was done: with a council of parents, interested parties and friends.

 

The family situation

The person who gives the money to my brother to give to me every two weeks (now that my mother is ill) is the notary or the lawyer or insurance broker (I have to verify which).  I will have to ask my brother to verify his name.  He seems reluctant to do so.  Perhaps this would be the person to contact when speaking to the Public Curator.

As for the annuity what I understand about that is that instead of people taking a mortgage from the bank, the money is handled by an insurance agency (Kosciusko).  So if there is some money from the annuity it would be handled by the Kociscko Insurance agency. 

So I assume there is money from the estate and it is being handled by the Kosciusko Insurance agency.  Could this be the man that gives my brother the money for me?  Someone does this for my mother.

3.At the time, I stated that I do not think that my brother will be just in carrying out my monetary affairs and that I would prefer to go to the public curator to have someone else at least in a consulting role to manage my part of the estate.  To put It more clearly having seen the way the estate was handled in the past, there is such an extreme conflict of interest between my brother, his extended family and myself I don’t know if the estate and its assets will be handled in a just  and explicable manner.

1.       I would like the services of the Public Curator to:

2.       Make sure that I am not once more, as in the past, put on the street without shelter and forced to seek refuge in a half-way house which is part of the jail system.

3.       Secure the valuables in my family estate: the family collected extremely expensive furniture and dishes and my mother had her jewelry so that they could use it as fluid capital.  The idea was that these objects would increase in their value as time went by while the money in the bank always decreased in their value.  Suffice it to say this is the fluid capital that I have been left, my brother calls it junk and says it has to be distributed to the anonymous poor and the house sold quickly and at a low cost.  If this is so all the value of the collection would be lost

4.       Make sure that the estate is handled to my best and fairest advantage.